This is the post I feared writing when I started the blog. Because what is there to write about? My husband passed away and it still hurts. Will the pain ever go away? But the story takes a different course.
As described in “How it started“, my husband told me about half a year after his passing over that we had to do spiritual work, together as a team, for which it was necessary for him to be discarnated and for me to be incarnated. When I asked what the task was, he just said I had to find out for myself. In the process I would learn things and gain experience that I will need later. As a result, I began to train myself in evidence-based mediumship. This is a form of contact with the hereafter, where information is obtained from the deceased and passed on to the recipient that the medium cannot know. These can be significant names and dates, the personality of the deceased person, information about their life, events, happy memories shared with the recipient, … with a subsequent message to the recipient.
Death as birth
One day, during a mediumistic reading, my late mother came forward. I was very down that day. As evidence, she gave, among other things, a reference to my husband’s upcoming birthday. This completely upset me – he died shortly after his birthday.
I thought about it a lot and came to the realization that I was totally focused on the day of his death. Not that I forgot his birthday, but the day of his death touched me more emotionally.
The reference to my husband’s birthday showed me that I was too fixated on his death. And that death on our physical level is a birth on the spiritual realm. Every departure leads to an arrival. What is a sad event for me is a cause for joy for his relatives who have already passed over.
Before this experience, I could not find any words for the April post, it was too painful. Suddenly they are there. Thank you, mom, for directing my thoughts in a constructive direction.