Lately, I have found it harder to attune to my husband. There is so much to be done. Activities that give me joy, but which have nothing to do with my husband and do not connect me directly with him. Yet I miss the time spent with him and the deep feeling of love and connection – I need a way to incorporate this into my new daily routine.
A thought has occurred, and it is only just now beginning to form into words. The frequency of our love. This is how it can go on with the two of us. Our love, like an umbilical cord, but as a vibration on a certain frequency. When either of us tunes in to this frequency, this invisible band begins to vibrate and is perceived by the other, like a tuning fork. With this inner picture I feel connected to you again.
The frequency of love
Something is still wrong with the picture. Should not the frequency of our love always be the same? But something changes when you reach a higher frequency. Another possibility arises. The bond that connects us changes its frequency as soon as either of us changes their energy frequency. Love itself, most likely, has a wide range of possible frequencies. The higher the vibration of the person, the higher the vibration of their love.
My husband says: You don’t have to make the connection between us because nothing is disconnected. You only need to shift your awareness. If you are too caught up in feelings of suffering and guilt, you don’t feel love. You feel guilty because you enjoy your new pursuits so much. By suppressing happiness, however, you also suppress other positive feelings. Allow yourself to enjoy life and love can flow again.
It is our own restrictive ideas that stand in our way and prevent us from enjoying life to its fullest. These ideas, of which we are mostly not aware, make life difficult for us. For love it’s easy – it is what it is. Erich Fried expressed this beautifully in his poem: “What it is“